Have you ever felt that you must follow another’s choice? What case? Up to you.. Field of study, activity, or maybe love.
If yes, I’m in your position now 😞
So here my story..
I have been fallen in love with someone called A. For me, he’s perfect. Not his appearence, but his personality. He’s so awesome, he keeps patient although I am angry. He always remind me to always remember God. This type of guy is a rare one nowadays (read my last post and you’ll know why I say like this).
Suddenly, the storm comes…
My father choose another guy for me WITHOUT DISCUSSING IT WITH ME! Angry? Of course! Let’s call him B. I know this guy, but I really don’t know how he is. I know that he prays on time in mosque, that’s all. Even I just know that he is 9 yo older than me!
Lemme explain you the problem…
1. Me and A’s relationship is a long distance relationship (LDR)
2. I wanna be a lecturer, but he is only a government employee
What my dad againsts are:
1. There are many problem come from LDR and he says that many couples divorce because they can’t believe each other. and let’s blame to LDR again
2. I wanna be a lecture so it’s better if I have a husband who has the same job as me. why? because he’ll understand what my thought is.
What do you think? Is it make sense?
Until now, I still can’t accept my dad’s thought…
Why my dad never think about my feeling? Will I be happy after marrying him?
From my religion side, a girl must follow what parents say because God’s bless is in parents’ order. But please, let me choose mine now! I have my own point of view but my Dad never gives time to explain it. He always say that B is a good person and suitable for me, but has he ever thought how well my marriage is with him? How happy my heart if I am with him?
I need a miracle from God so I cn choose mine and be happy with mine.